A spiritual retreat for women who have outgrown the
life they have been living, and are done waiting.
Stop Performing. Start Becoming
September 23rd to 27th, 2026
Kinnikinnick Landing | Kelowna, British Columbia
With
Danielle Artigo | Tryna Gower
You have been so many things to so many people for so long. You are competent, capable, and deeply generous. You have built a life that, from the outside, looks exactly like what you were working toward.
And still. There is a part of you that has never been fully seen. Not even by yourself.
This retreat is for that part of you.
You Were Not Made to Perform Your Life
You have done everything right.
The therapy. The courses. The retreats. The spiritual practice. You have read the books and done the journaling, and you know, intellectually, that you are enough.
And still.
There is a version of you that has not been fully lived. You feel her in the quiet moments, when everyone else's needs have finally been met, and the house goes still. In the ache that rises when you catch yourself performing a confidence you do not entirely feel. In the dream, you keep putting back on the shelf because there is always something more pressing than you.
She has been patient. She has been waiting without complaint. But she is done waiting.
You have outgrown the life you have been living. Not because you did anything wrong. Because you have grown. Because the woman you are becoming cannot fit inside the container that the woman you were agreed to.
This is not a mindset problem. It is not something another course will fix. What is happening in you right now is an identity shift, a cellular-level remembering of who you were before the world got so loud about who you should be.
That is what this retreat is for.
Not to build a new you. To return you to the one who has been here all along.
Why the Four Faces of Woman?
What if nothing about you needs to be fixed? What if the parts of you that feel missing are not broken, but exiled? The Four Faces of Woman starts from that premise and goes from there.
Every woman contains four living archetypes. Not stages you move through and leave behind. Not phases of life tied to your age or your history. Dimensions of your wholeness that exist simultaneously, right now, in you. Each one has her own gifts. Her own wounds. Her own wisdom that belongs to no one else.
Most women are living fully in one or two of these faces and quietly exiling the rest. They have been the devoted Mother and forgotten the Maiden who knows how to follow her own delight. They have been the striving Queen and kept the Crone's hard-won wisdom locked safely away where it cannot inconvenience anyone. They have been so busy producing and achieving and caretaking that the part of them who knows things, who sees clearly, who is absolutely done pretending, has not been given permission to speak.
She has things to say.
This retreat moves through all four faces in sequence because that sequence is not incidental. It is the medicine. You cannot arrive at the full power of the Queen without first meeting the Maiden's longing. Without sitting with the Mother's devotion and the places it cost her. Without letting the Crone speak her unflinching truth, the one you have been managing and softening and making more palatable for years.
The architecture exists because each face prepares you for the next. This is not a weekend of insights you will forget by Tuesday. Before you leave Kinnikinnick Landing, these archetypes will not be concepts you understand. They will be women you have met. You will know them from the inside. You will know which ones you have been living with and which ones have been standing at the door, waiting for you to finally let them in.
The Maiden
She is wonder before it became work. She is the one who followed what drew her before her mind could explain why. She is also the one who learned, early, that she was too much or not enough. She is where your original wound lives. She is where your original wound lives. She is also where your joy went. And it is still there. Reclaiming her is not about becoming naive. It is about choosing to be fully alive on purpose.
The Crone
The face most women spend their lives avoiding. The one who does not have time for pretending. The one who knows things she cannot explain and has stopped needing to explain them.
She carries the ancestors. She is the keeper of every threshold you have ever crossed. She is your most powerful face, and she has been waiting for you to stop being afraid of her.
The Mother
She is the one who loves so completely that she forgot to save any for herself.
Whether or not you have children, you know her. She is devotion and fierce love and the ability to hold everything together for everyone. She is also, for most women, the place where the self quietly disappeared. Not in one dramatic moment. In ten thousand small ones, each of which felt, at the time, like love.
She is exhausted. She is magnificent. And she has never once been told that she is also allowed to receive.
That is what we are here to change.
The Queen
She is not a destination. She is the woman who has walked through all three faces and chosen, deliberately, to remain herself. Sovereignty without rigidity. Power without performance. The one who does not think her truth and then edit it. The one who says it. She is who you already are, when everything you have been performing finally falls away.
Five Days. Four Faces. One Homecoming.
Here is what the five days will look like
Wednesday Evening, September 23 — Arrival and Opening
You arrive to candlelight, a dessert bar, and the smell of living plants. Women are settling in from across the country. The greenhouse is already holding you before the evening formally begins.
At 6:30 pm, the sacred container opens. A welcome, a land acknowledgment honoring the Syilx people on whose territory we are gathering, and an opening circle. By the time you go to sleep, something in you has already started to shift.
★ Meals: Farm-to-table lunch and farm-to-table dinner on property.
Thursday — The Maiden and The Mother
The day opens with a cacao ceremony. Before any teaching begins, the heart opens first.
Danielle moves through the Maiden and the Mother: the original wound, the Persephone myth, the places devotion became depletion, and what it means to reclaim yourself in both. Somatic movement, inquiry writing, a channeled guided journey, and a mirror practice that asks you to simply be witnessed without performing anything in return.
A local floral artist joins the group in the afternoon to teach flower crown making. The Maiden made visible, worn, and celebrated.
The evening belongs to a local sound healer. You lie on a mat in the greenhouse and simply receive.
★ Meals: Farm-to-table lunch and farm-to-table dinner on property.
Friday — The Crone
Danielle opens the Crone: the face most women spend their lives avoiding. The one who does not have time for pretending. The one who has been carrying your ancestors and waiting for you to stop being afraid of her.
After lunch, Tryna channels a guided ancestor journey. What wisdom lives in your lineage that has been waiting for you? Her Soul Signature work reaches its deepest thread here.
As dusk arrives, the group gathers around a fire. What you are ready to release is offered to the flames. The Crone receives it. The fire asks nothing of you in return.
★ Meals: Farm-to-table lunch and farm-to-table dinner on property.
Saturday — The Queen
She arrives on the fourth day, as she always does: only after everything else has been walked through.
Danielle teaches the Queen. Tryna's Soul Signature work crystallizes with the astrological threads of your North Node, South Node, and Sun Sign. A spoken truth practice. The Dueling Channels live transmission. A photoshoot in the greenhouse. And the Queen love letter: written to yourself, sealed with wax, held beside the mandala overnight.
Then the group goes out. Dressed, lit from within, taking the Queen into the world for the first time. A private dinner at a beautiful local Kelowna restaurant. Harvest season in the Okanagan.
You return to a transformed greenhouse. Music is already playing. The dance party needs no instruction.
★ Meals: Farm-to-table lunch on the property. Queen's Banquet dinner out at a local Kelowna restaurant.
Sunday — Closing and Departure
A closing brunch together. The mandala present and complete, holding four days of everything you moved through.
The closing circle. Each woman speaks one truth she is carrying home. One sentence. No more is needed.
Danielle and Tryna channel the closing transmission together. The sealed love letters are returned, each one with your name written on the outside. A brief word before you open yours: she wrote it at the moment she knew the most. Trust her.
Then the mandala dismantling. Together, you return the elements to the land that gave them. What was built was real. What you received lives in your body, not the petals.
You leave. Changed.
★ Meals: Farm-to-table closing brunch on the property. Accommodation breakfast provided by your hotel.
